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Summary |
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I have written a book to outline in details my “7L Smart Parents Strategies” that I have personally practiced with a great degree of success. What are the “7Ls”? They are: |
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- Lots of Love;
- Limit for Everything;
- Learning Smart;
- Leisure Family Time; and
- Leadership Skill;
- Lend a Hand.
- Leave It to God.
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Put together, I call them Smart Parenting strategies to create Brighter Kids. Although they are more skewed towards primary school years (age 7 – 12), the principles are universal enough to be applied to younger and older kids.
Here are a glimpse of how the Smart Parents, Brighter Kids strategies can offer to improve your family and avoid future problems in the teenage years:
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Benefits to You and Your Kids |
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1. Practice the “7 Rules of Love” from young |
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- Create a happy, loving home
- Show you a way to make the kids actually listen to you without yelling and nagging
- Reduce pressure and stress on the kids, yet they still strive for the best
- Create polite, respectful kids / teens
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2. Smartly and effectively “Set the Limits” that kids eagerly want to follow |
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- Create obedient, disciplined & responsible kids
- Less stress in controlling the TV, PC, PS2 time
- Institute a fair and effective rewards & punishment system
- Remove any little chances of our kids from turning into future “Mat Rempit”, bullies, etc
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3. Apply “Learn Smart, Not Hard” techniques – no tuitions required!
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- No need for tuitions any more!
- Improve your kids' grades within one to three months
- Enable parents to be aware of and leverage their kids' strength and weaknesses
- Learn how to classify their subjects and plan for each accordingly
- No more slogging over books nearing exam time
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4. Apply secrets of low cost “Leisurely Family” outings and activities |
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- Improve family bonding immediately
- Retain sanity in the household
- Rediscover life
- Recharged and ready for more
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5. Sow the seed of Leadership & Social skills TODAY for better tomorrow
Reveal the techniques & activities that can:
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- Mould your kids into future leaders
- Instill high confidence to socialize
- Turn your nervous kids into an engaging public speaker
- Provide a sense of direction – remove tendency to “lepak” or other time-wasting activities
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6. Lend a Hand – Find what you can do to give back what you have received, to make rooms for more
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- Show you the effective ways to “give back in order to receive more”
- Learn how other parents have successfully lent their hands to make lasting impacts
- Be inspired by the true stories
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7. Learn how to sit back, relax and “Leave it to God”
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- Offer hope in the Higher Being, whatever your belief is
- Instill strong values in your kids
- Get a peace of mind no matter what
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